Sometimes I embrace the advantages (I was still offered crayons at restaurants till recently; I can let people assume it's okay I don't have a degree yet, etc.) and other times I have to brace myself for possible challenges. Acting gigs are one of my major challenges. While it's great that I'll most likely be passing as a 21-year-old by the time I get to 40, for now my *youthful* appearance is a pain in the arse.
A few months ago when the movie opportunity came along is a prime example. The casting notice called for 25-30somethings, and an actress friend told me to give it a shot. She'd already been cast as an extra. I originally planned to submit what I considered a good head shot (a photographer did it about a year ago):
but she suggested the shot looked too young. So we settled on this:
The difference in the two pictures is about a year, so maybe I have aged slightly (finally :-p). I submitted it, and the casting agent called me "cute" and seemed delighted, but suggested it was possible to style myself older. She said I had the job, and would need to look 30-35 the day of the shoot. I freaked out, but worked with my friend to pick make-up and wardrobe that would give me as much advantage as possible. This is how I looked the morning of the shoot:
Then last weekend I was preparing for an audition that called for a "20something." BGF (who's a licensed cosmetologist) thinks I look older with my hair up and less eyeliner, as modeled in this look:
and I got the part. :-)
Have any of you ever encountered a major obstacle with your appearance or age, especially one that interfered with obtaining a job opportunity? How did you handle it?